Session 1, Read and notice: A place for everyone
Week 19 big question: How can we notice what others need?
Start with a story (optional) Sahana Makes Music — Read it hereSahana taps spoons and glasses to find all kinds of sounds.
Fair play starts when we ask what each one needs.
Imagine your hand reaching for a ball as a game begins. You want to roll it, but another player wants to toss it. A third player needs more time to respond to the ball. How can all three of you join in the game? Before choosing how to play, find out what each person needs. Fair play starts with listening, even before the ball starts moving.
Treat others well, and ask what works for them.
The Golden Rule says to treat others the way you want to be treated. But what if your friend likes a quieter game than you do? Ask what works for them, since people may want different help or play. Good sportsmanship means taking turns and following the rules you agreed on. It also means accepting a loss without insults and helping fix a mistake.
We have rights, and we must care for the rights of others.
Citizenship links people with the public life of a country. People have freedoms and protections called rights, like the right to share their views. They also have the right to be treated fairly under the law. A responsibility is something we are expected to do, like caring for shared places. Following laws and respecting other people’s rights are part of that work. Rights are not prizes that you lose when someone else wins. So you can disagree and still listen to each other.
Grade 1 · Source card
Mamie Tape wanted to learn
Mamie Tape was a Chinese American child in San Francisco. A public school kept her out because she was Chinese. Her family asked a court for help. In 1885, California’s highest court said she had the right to enter public school. The school law did not allow her to be kept out for being Chinese. Yet officials sent Mamie and other Chinese children to a separate school. Winning the case did not end unfair treatment.

The Tape family, about 1884–1885. Photographer unknown; Smithsonian exhibition / Wikimedia Commons; public domain in the United States.
Image source · Public domain (United States)
My drawing or words about Mamie. Draw or tell what was unfair. Show how Mamie’s family asked for help.
Sources for this card
Show what you notice
- Ask what someone needs. How does that help with the Golden Rule?
- A player loses a turn. What could they do to show good sportsmanship?
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